General

Hi! I'm Red, Raine, or Renley. I live in the US and enjoy reading, writing (especially poetry), art, music, and friends. I love learning and educating about LGBTQ+ issues and identities so feel free to ask me questions! When I grow up I want to work with animals, specifically primates (my special interest!) or birds.

Pronouns

My pronouns are they/moon/moth/🍓! Please use all of my pronouns, if you don't I will ask you to stop using they/them for me.

Identity

Gender: I'm trans, nonbinary, agender, and use xenogenders (learn more here).
Sexuality: I'm an aroace lesbian (but also I don't know I just gave up on figuring it out women though <3)
Other: I have anxiety, depression, and am getting an autism diagnosis soon.

Boundaries

•Please use tone indicators, especially with jokes/sarcasm
•If I ask you not to use one of my pronouns or not to call me something, don't use it.
•Only use they/them on me if I've given you permission, otherwise use my neopronouns.
•You can dm me, but I may not respond, don't pressure me to either
•I'm ok with guy and bro being used gender neutrally. Ask me before you use dude gender neutrally.

DNI

•Typical DNI criteria.
•Anti neopronouns, xenogenders, emojipronouns, nounself pronouns, tone indicators, self dx.
•Refuse to use tone indicators for people who need them, make fun of tone indicators, or use them jokingly.
•Make jokes at the expense of minority groups.
•Use slurs you cannot reclaim.
•Pro shippers/MAPs/zoos/mspec lesbians/mspec gays.
•Support anyone who is within this criteria.

Resources

• •LGBTQ+ Info (Google Doc)

• •Try on Pronouns (Pronoun Closet)

• •LGBTQ+ Youth Hotline (Trevor Project)

• •Neopronouns (Pronoun-Provider)

• •Attraction (What are the Different Types of Attraction?)

What are xenogenders?

Xenogenders are genders that are described using metaphors or things that aren't usually used to describe gender. A lot of the time they're used by Neurodivergent because of the different way they interact with gender and the world but anyone can use xenogenders!

My xenogenders

Below are my xenogenders, their definitions, and flags. All these definitions and flags are coined by me, but I am aware there may be other definitions or flags out there.

SPACE GENDERS
Astroplacic: A gender that feels confusing; like it’s lost, far away in the depths of space. The word comes from the Greek root astro- meaning space, the word place, and the Latin root -ic meaning relating to. The stripes have no specific meaning.Telespaceary: A gender that feels distant or hard to reach, like how space is vast and far away. The word comes from the Greek root tele- meaning far away, the word. space, and the Latin root -ary meaning pertaining to. White represents nonbinary genders, fuchsia represents uniqueness, turquoise represents clarity, and black represents space.Nebulaic: When you're just starting to understand and your gender in a way similar to how star nurseries are nebulas starting to have new stars form. The word comes from the word nebula and the Latin root -ic meaning relating to. Green represents new beginnings, light green represents nature, light purple represents understanding, purple represents imagination, black represents space, and white represents stars.Flags:
(top) Astroplacic (with and without icon)
(middle) Telespaceary (with and without icon)
(bottom) Nebulaic (original and unsimplified)

OTHER GENDERS
Senticoric: Feeling frustrated, confused, or angry that you can't grasp onto the core of your gender in a way similar to the way you feel frustrated or confused to why people disrespect your identity or angry when people disrespect it. The word comes from the Latin root senti- meaning feel, the word core, and the Latin root -ic meaning relating to. Red represents anger, orange represents feelings, yellow represents frustration, and the muted tones represent confusion.Mysterygender: when one's gender is a mystery. Comes from the word mystery + gender. Purple represents mystery and the different shades represent solving it/different levels of it being mysterious.Genderstimic: when thinking about one's gender makes one want to stim. Comes from the word gender, the word stim, and the latin prefix -ic meaning relating to. Pink represents expression, orange represents excitement, yellow represents joy, and blue represents peace.Flags:
(top) Senticoric (with and without icon)
(middle) Mysterygender (original and unsimplified)
(bottom) Genderstimic (with and without icon)

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